How to Show Love to Your Cat (Because They Deserve It!)

how to show love to your cat

We’re all totally obsessed with our kitty cats, but do you know how to show love to your cat? Luckily, we’ve got all the answers you could need.

how to show love to your cat
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Cats truly are the greatest pets ever. Whether they’re snoozing cutely in the corner or just being adorable as they play with some ribbon, there’s so many reasons to adore them. Still, do you honestly know how to show love to your cat? If you don’t have a clue, you’ve come to the right place. We’ve got just a few handy tips that will help you tell your special pet that they mean the absolute world to you. Enjoy!

Give them the perfect cuddle

You may not have given it much thought before now, but there is actually a ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ way to pet your kitty. If you’re thinking about how to show love to your cat, you need to make sure that you get this tiny thing right. Don’t just go ahead and start rubbing your cat; they may not like it and you could upset them by doing so. No, instead, you need to be sensitive about what your cat does and does not like.

One type of cuddle that pretty much every kitty is certain to enjoy is the ‘head to tail’ stroke. It’s just what it says on the tin. You need to stroke your cat firmly and with confidence, starting at the head and ending just before you reach their tail. You should notice that your cat or kitten starts to purr when you give them this affection. The reason is oh-so-simple. They love it!

Head-butt them (no, really!)

Have you ever noticed that your cat head-butts you now and then? Don’t be alarmed! This is actually one of the many ways that a cat will show their love for you. If you want to return the favor, you quite literally can. Sure, it may feel weird rubbing your head on your cat, but this is what their parents will have done when they were younger. For that reason, your kitty is certain to find this action endearing and sweet. Trust us, it really will work!

Of course, there are a few things that you need to remember when it comes to this action. Firstly, you don’t want to be too firm or hard with your cat. Instead, you should make sure that you start out soft, giving them just a tap with your head. You should also pay close attention to how they react. If your cat seems upset or disturbed by this action, stop right away. You don’t want them to feel that you are intruding on their space.

Give them a few treats

There’s no doubt about it… Cats adore having delicious treats. Whether you have special biscuits that you give your pet or even some catnip, there are just so many ways in which you can show them how very much you care. Giving them something extra, aside from their daily food, will make them happy and is something that they are just sure to enjoy!

Still, if you tend to give your cat treats to show them how much you love them, you need to make sure that you don’t make the mistake of overdoing it. All cat lovers want their pets to be happy, but that does not mean that you should give them treats all of the time. Doing so could actually hinder their health or make them fat. Yikes! Be certain to limit the treats that you give your cat so that you don’t have this issue.

Nap with your cat

Finally, if there’s one thing that cats love above everything else it has to be a good old fashioned nap. After all, what could be better than relaxing the hours away? Nothing! When you catch your kitty snoozing away (which is basically all of the time anyway!), why not curl up next to them? This closeness will show them that you really care and, importantly, that you are on the same level as them in terms of social status. When you’re thinking of how to show love to your cat, this has to be at the top of your list.

What’s more, there’s no better way to unwind than to have a literal cat nap with your favorite pet! The next time that you get a chance to have a cheeky little sleep next to your kitty, make sure that you don’t pass it up! Getting closer to your cat and enjoying some real quality time with them is a great way to show them that you appreciate just how very cute they are. Adorable!

Author: Alley Cat

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