10 Unmistakable Signs That Your Cat Loves You

Love or just lust? Here are some of the biggest signs that your cat loves you!

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One of the many things that us cat owners tend to wonder is this: “Does my cat really love me?” When you adore your little kitty so very much, it’s only natural that you’d hope for the same in return, right? Luckily, you need not worry. There are loads of unmistakable signs that your cat loves you!

While there are many people who will claim that cats don’t ‘know how’ to love, they are just plain wrong. Let’s face it, these people usually tend to be dog lovers and, frankly, they haven’t a single clue what they are talking about. If you suspect that your kitty is in love with you, showing signs that your cat loves you, here’s how you can know for sure.

1. Head-butting you

While head-butting another person would be nothing short of an act of violence, in the animal world it means something entirely different. This is one of the most obvious signs that your cat loves you. They will come up to you and simply bump their head against yours. Don’t be put off… This is just your cat’s way of saying hello.

2. Showing you their tummy

For cats, the tummy is a sacred place; a place that needs to be protected at all times. So, if your kitty rolls onto their back and shows you their stomach, it means that they really do love you. This is a display of trust! Your cat knows that you’re one of the good guys and won’t hurt them.

3. Biting your hands (softly!)

Okay, this one is a little weird, but stay with me here. When your cat starts to nibble on your hands, they are not being aggressive. Quite the opposite. These soft, little bites are actually a sign of affection. (Note: Harder bites can be a sign of aggression… Don’t mistake the two!)

4. Looking you in the eye

Again, this one is all about trust. Cats can be very trusting creatures, but you have to earn it from them. If your kitty will look you in the eye without getting scared or anxious, it means that they love you ever-so-much.

5. Rubbing against your legs

Most cat lovers tend to notice this sign! When your cat starts rubbing up against your leg, they are not just ‘marking their territory’. Oh no, this is them telling the world that you are their special person. Savor the moment, guys.

6. Purring!

There’s a whole load of speculation about what a cat’s purr actually means. Still, when your kitty is making a low, constant purring sound, it can only signify one thing. This is a sign that your cat loves you and, crucially, that they feel comfortable around you.

7. Following you when you walk

When you walk around your home, what does your little feline friend do? Do they follow you everywhere you go? If they do, it means that they want to be near you at every chance they get. It really is that simple.

8. Bringing you little gifts

Let’s be real a second here: Some of the gifts that your cat brings you may be unwanted. Face it, nobody wants to get a dead mouse as a present. Still, if you ignore how gross the gift really is, it’s undeniable what your cat is trying to say to you. I mean, would you get a present for someone you hated? I think not!

9. Curling up on you

When you’re on a major Netflix binge, you should pay close attention to what your cat does. Many kitties find that the most comfortable place to sleep is in a ball on their owner’s lap. If your cat curls up on you, it’s a major sign that they love you. They aren’t even trying to hide it!

10. The slow eye blink

Finally, here’s the one you’ve been waiting for; the slow eye blink. Try looking at your cat and closing your eyes slowly. If your pet does the exact same thing in response, it means that they simply adore you. Go on…. Try it for yourself!

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